Hey, it’s not cancer …
It's going to be OK
One of the tools I’ve picked up from my cancer experience is the phrase, “Hey, it’s not cancer.” I can’t remember who I heard it from, but it’s helped me when I’m anxious about things that really aren’t that important in the scheme of life.
A problem at work? An argument with my mom? My daughter having a meltdown? Hey, it’s not cancer. After all, I’ve gotten through a lot worse and have been better for it. Why sweat the small stuff?
Right now, I’m a little anxious about being interviewed by Girlfriendology.com tomorrow. See the News and Events page for details. Interviews are something I always avoided. Even working in public relations I always had someone else talk to the media.
So now is my chance to dip my toe in the fear pool and get over myself. It’s not a big deal and it’s certainly not cancer. So what if I don’t sound perfect? Cancer has given me the chance to try things I would never have done before, like getting up and making a fool out of myself dancing and writing a book, for instance.
Have you taken risks or faced fears since a cancer diagnosis or know someone who did? I’d love to hear from you.
Pat Steer (Gaelen) says:
I’ve never thought of it that way – but you’re right, saying ‘hey, it’s not cancer!’ really can put things into perspective. Right now I’m looking at a department closing and possible move to another state or retirement, and my entire working life is in an uproar. I’ve really been letting it get to me, but y’know what? I’ve been beating Stage IV rectal cancer for more than 5 years (its own miracle…) and a change in my work or workplace sure isn’t cancer.
And if I can handle cancer, I can handle anything. Thanks for reminding me!